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What have we done to deserve this?

13 December 2011

That’s the question I have asked myself over and over.

Not sure there is a right answer – I’m the smoker and was a heavy drinker and Cat was a Vegan. So who out of the two of us should it have happened to?

This blog is just a way for me to type my thoughts and throw it out there for anyone who might be going through the same thing. After almost three months since Cat left, I have just about come to terms with the whole thing. I’m still mad as hell but I have no-one to blame – that’s fate for you. I’m more fortunate than some in that I have Nathaniel with me – a little bit of Cat left behind.

I’m going to try to write our story so that you can see what it was like from my side but as it’s more historical I might be a tad slow.


2 Comments leave one →
  1. 13 December 2011 10:07 pm

    Very Good James x

  2. 14 December 2011 12:11 am

    James, It helps everybody to read this. You don’t think right now, that is the case, but It will help you, and Cat’s friends…. as well as people who don’t know her . They can draw from your experience. Your a strong man…and Cat will be proud…There is not a day that goes by when I don’t think about her…. Much love to you and Nathaniel…xx

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